Daffodil 12 days ago

Dear all,

Thank you very much for sharing your thoughts and experiences. As we draw closer to Christmas, it is good to be reminded that this period can be difficult, while also offering the opportunity to find moments of solace.

For those living with a terminal illness or caring for someone with a terminal illness, there can also be periods of respite. I know someone who had kind friends visiting when their parent was celebrating their final Christmas, for example. Their relieving the carer for a few hours wa s a gift that is still fondly remembered years later, and it seems to have allowed everyone involved to appreciate their time together. I would love to hear from others with experience of care situations how they have kept Christmas with unexpected moments of joy.

If anyone is struggling, sharing those thoughts can be useful too. Please feel free to post here, if you are comfortable to do so. As Laura mentioned, the Marie Curie Support Line is also here to listen throughout the period: Mo-Fri 8am-6pm, Sat-Sun 10-4pm. Call 0800 090 2309 or email (further details are available here: Marie Curie Support Line.

With my best wishes,

Anke

admin 10 days ago

Thank you so much for starting this really important thread, Anke. And to everyone, for sharing your thoughts, reflections and traditions that you do to remember your loved ones.

The festive period can be particularly difficult if you’re living with a terminal illness, caring for someone who is or after a bereavement. 

If you’re struggling to cope this Christmas, along with what’s already been mentioned on our Online Community, here are some more practical suggestions from our Bereavement Support Service Coordinator, Jane - Christmas without a loved one – practical tips | Marie Curie

As Anke and Laura mentioned, please remember that we’re also here for you on our Support Line. We’re open every day over the festive period and you can find more information about our opening hours here - Marie Curie Support Line | Helpline | Marie Curie

Take good care 💛